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The method that is saving marriages quickly...even with just one partner.
Release resentments, improve communication & get the support, intimacy and soul-deep connection you desire.
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Extraordinary Marriages Are Created Through Healing Patterns.
I teach high-achieving women how to transform their marriages from disconnected to deeply intimate, so they can feel seen, heard, and valued without waiting for their partner to change first.
Hi! I'm Valerie Kolick, the founder of Happily In Love™ & The Love You Lead Method™
I help driven women & couples create wildly connected, wildly fulfilling relationships using relational life therapy (RLT), nervous system & somatic healing, neuropsychology and attachment work.
Get your needs met and your voice heard.
My philosophy is simple: most marriage advice expects women to shrink themselves smaller and try harder, which leads to resentment, exhaustion, and feeling like you're parenting your partner.
I'm unavailable for that.
There's a deeper way to heal disconnection and that's exactly what I show you through my trauma-informed, attachment-based approach.
What would change for your marriage if you could stop being the emotional manager... and start being an equal partner who feels genuinely supported?
You Deserve to Be Cherished
(and so does you partner)
The love you desire is destined for you. You'll hear me say these two phrases all the frickin time because it's true. ALL of your relationship dreams are achievable. All you need is an easy to follow process to get you there. When you work with me and my method, it will completely transform the way you show up in your marriage, forever. Deep connection, authentic partnership, yes?
I Want To Transform My Marriage In The Next 90-Days!
Hundreds of Extraordinary Women & Couples have create the Intimacy & Connection they desire.
"I was really hesitant to invest in Valerie’s program. I didn’t know if I would get what I expected to out of it. But starting in the first module I was seeing major aha moments! The communication has completely turned around in my marriage and my husband has even seen my change. It’s been a mind opening experience know that I have control over my experiences. I am now off of my stress meditation that I had been on for two years! That’s BIG!"
Lisa
We struggled with communication and disconnection. I tried lots of other programs but they weren't really dealing with the underlying issues. And that only gets you so far until you start really building resentment because you can't be authentic and you just have to try to act like everything's okay. And then of course the countless relationship books I read, and nothing worked.
Valerie's coaching and program has been life-changing. Communication is easy. I feel like we understand each other. I just feel like we have our connection back and we continue to work on it. I have my best friend back and I didn't feel that for a long time.
It's been wonderful, amazing, every day is a great day. It's like dating again. I love that.
Kristen H.
Before working with Valerie, I struggled with lots of resentments and anger in my relationships and through past hurts. Now I have a deeper and more loving relationship with my husband and family and I have discovered so much about myself that has healed me in countless ways. I feel liberated and free from my past.
Renee D.
THE turning point in my life...
"My life is completely and totally different. I went from feeling powerless to powerful beyond measure. Valerie’s coaching is invaluable. I truly feel that this was THE turning point in my life thus far. Valerie has truly changed my life and the lives of my husband and children forever."
We are closer than ever!
"After working with Valerie our marriage just works so much better. We don't raise our voices at each other anymore - and we resolve problems much quicker, our anxieties have almost disappeared and we don't get defensive anymore. Now, we can focus on creating success & happiness in the rest of our life now that we are secure and happy with our relationship! We have reinvested in our relationship, we are more committed and closer than ever!"
Rediscovered my love...
"I’m a stay at home mom to twins and a child with autism. I was constantly busy but felt unfulfilled. After the program, I feel clearer in my purpose and confident. I rediscovered my love of writing and am using my writing to create policy change for my son and other children with disabilities! If you feel like you are just surviving but not thriving, I highly recommend taking this course."
It will change your life!
"The class has made me a stronger and more confident woman. I believe in myself and learned how to give myself a break. I would recommend this program to anyone who is questioning if they are living the fullest life they can, wondering if there's more for them, and how to get it. Be open and go for it, it will change your life."
Helped me shift right away!
"Even just one session with Valerie gave me a new level of insight to what has been keeping me stuck and keeping me from getting the results I want in both my relationship and finances. She gave me a tool that was powerful in helping me shift my behaviors right away!"
Game-changer!
"Working with Valerie was a game changer for both my business and personal life. She helped me identify some items that were preventing me from experiencing happiness and success, and helped me overcome them. Valerie truly cares about her clients and is committed to doing what it takes to help them be successful. I had a record revenue month after meeting with Valerie and I am so grateful for the opportunity to coach with her."
FREE ASSESSMENT!
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